While many women’s rights activists have fought hard so that women can be treated as equals to men, any attempt to fight for equivalent male rights has been trounced soundly. Therefore men have yet to achieve the right openly partake of all things “women,” up to and including men’s tights.
The term “metrosexual” male was originally coined to refer to heterosexual men who are concerned with their appearance and therefore might be considered by other men as being aligned with the homosexual lifestyle. However, more recently it is coming to mean the ability of men to take care of themselves any way they want…not just in stereotypical male ways like working out, getting buzz cuts and shaving in the shower to save time.
Why wouldn’t a man want to have soft, itch-free skin? Why shouldn’t he be entitled to have an attractive hair style that requires use of hair products and a blow dryer? Why can’t a man spend hours shopping for a flattering outfit that makes him look good?
In short, he can’t because it makes him look gay. Unfortunately for all men, the need to disassociate themselves with all that is gay is still a real force in what is socially acceptable for a man to do. The metrosexual revolution is slowly changing that, especially in the more metropolitan areas of the U.S. and Europe.
Men can now get their hair “done,” get manicures, facials, pedicures and more without too many other men or women looking askance. Men can also shop at the myriad of stores that cater to metropolitan males without sneaking in the back door, but he probably can’t enjoy a latte with shopping bags at his feet unless he has a female companion. Change moves slowly.
The clothing a man wears is also still firmly anchored in the past. Women are free to wear anything and everything that a man can wear, but let a man put on a skirt or a pair of men’s tights and he is instantly labeled as a cross-dresser or transvestite. Why is this? Men can enjoy and benefit from wearing male hosiery just as much as women. They keep your legs warm, they feel good, they’re comfortable; why shouldn’t all men be allowed to wear male tights?
A mirdle is another clothing item in hot contention. It is male version of the girdle that women have been wearing for centuries to improve their figures. Just about any women will tell you that a flabby stomach on a male is singularly unattractive, but let anyone discover that a man is wearing a girdle and he is cast out of that warm group of socially acceptable males.
From lotion to hair mouse to mirdles to men’s tights…the men of the world should be allowed to wear whatever they want, wherever they want without fear of being outcast or humiliated by public shortsightedness. Men of the world, unite! Be free from dress codes that are moribund. Wear what you damn well please.
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